Blog Articles of the Domina School Switzerland The femdom, BDSM and erotic blog for aspiring dominatrixes, dommes and sex workers.

"Fisting Anal Stretching Prostata Massage

By Tom Deckard July 18. 2023
Everything you need to know for full fisting without risks and negative effects. READ MORE...

"Femdom" is not a person

By Tom Deckard Abril 21. 2023
"Femdom" is a term that is often misinterpreted, especially in the German-speaking world. For example, some bloggers falsely claim that femdom is another word for dominatrix. READ MORE...

The dominated dominatrix

By Tom Deckard April 8. 2023
Clients often come to a Dominatrix with specific wishes. Newcomers in particular do this out of insecurity and fear and sometimes even bring a whole programme with them that prescribes the course of action in every detail. READ MORE...

Sex is system critic

By Tom Deckard January 30. 2023
"Something I didn't understand for a long time about my fascination with eroticism is that there is far more to it than sexual arousal. READ MORE...

Femdom and BDSM are just sick perversions?

By Tom Deckard September 20. 2022
BDSM and femdom are about much more than just pain and fetishes. READ MORE...

Experience report from the Domina Course

By F. Müller, December 6. 2021
Domina School - The Heiresses of Marquis de Sade. An experience report from a course visit. READ MORE...

The voices of sex workers

By Tom Deckard June 14. 2021
The reality is different from what the moralists would like. READ MORE...

The 'Nordic Model' of Sex Work

By Tom Deckard June 10. 2021
A fig leaf for politicians, at the expense of sex workers. READ MORE...

Good advice for punters

By Tom Deckard November 2. 2020
You get a more passionate service if you put some effort to look and be nice. READ MORE...

The blog author Tom Deckard

For Tom, devotion is a lifelong passion and his experience as a sub turned out to be a great advantage when working as an instructor for the Dominatrix School: he knows exactly what moves a dominatrix's clients and he knows the appropriate techniques and their effect. Tom is also a designer, BDSM photographer and writer. He writes in this blog about his personal experiences and recommendations in the field of femdom, BDSM and sex work.